It is in our nature to have instincts, to be or act somehow with the lack of thought. Many times we find ourselves doing or saying things we normally ‘wouldn’t’. As one would say, we surprise our own beings with our own reactions. It is not necessarily a bad, nor a good thing. But as long as we believe we are superior, rational beings, we must act like it… take control of our minds and mechanisms.

We are who we think we are. Our words become actions, our actions become habits, and our habits, eventually, reflect who we are. But let’s go back a little and reflect at the roots of our beings. Words are generated by thoughts, and thoughts are the mind’s masterpiece. But we, as beings, we are beyond that. We are souls. Our minds are just a tool. A tool for us to understand and present ourselves in the dimension of existence we know. So what about we stop for a minute and observe our minds. Not identify with the mind, but set back and reflect on what’s going on. Thoughts, feelings, let them flow… but acknowledge every move.

In order for one to be in control, it first has to do with knowing what the being is dealing with.


Outfit: blouse, shorts, shoes- ZARA; bag- H&M; watch- Fossil;

Remember, to always

Have Courage & Be Kind.

Photographer: Andra Topan;

Stalk me: insta- iuliatopan, twitter: @IuliaTopan;

Love, IuliAlexandra

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